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Trip of a lifetime turned deadly at sea

Discussion in 'General Yachting Discussion' started by Capt Ralph, Apr 3, 2024.

  1. Capt Ralph

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    A US man who was injured in a recent boating accident that claimed the life of his 55-year-old wife left The Bahamas on Thursday, but her body has not yet been transported from the country.

    With his arm in a sling, bruises visible, and tears streaming down his face, the man, who asked that he and his late wife’s names be kept out of the story, said the trip through The Bahamas on their sailboat had been a longtime dream they shared.

    The couple, who had been married 32 years, cruised out of New Bern, North Carolina.

    “It was a long trip and it was really cold actually, but we were very determined to make it to The Bahamas because this was supposed to be a lifetime trip for us,” he said.

    But the dream vacation turned to tragedy when a powerboat collided with their dinghy in waters off Staniel Cay, Exuma, on Sunday, March 24.

    His wife was killed, and he was transported to New Providence where he spent several days at Princess Margaret Hospital.

    Speaking with The Nassau Guardian before boarding a plane out of The Bahamas, he said, “The shortest version is I was run over by a large power boat.

    “I was going through a narrow part of a cut between Big Major’s and Staniel and I saw a large powerboat coming and I tried to turn and get out of their way and they matched every turn I made.

    “I don’t think it was intentional, but it’s what happened, and I tried to get out of the way. I don’t think they ever saw me at all.

    “We were in an 9ft rubber dinghy that we used to get from our sailboat to land.”

    His wife had recently retired.

    “She had gotten a chance to retire early, a retirement we were supposed to enjoy together,” he said, adding that he hopes some lesson is learnt from the tragedy.

    “I hope people learn to slow down and be more careful with those big powerboats because they are changing people’s lives.

    “I don’t think they saw me. I tried to get out of the way, but I couldn’t get out of their way.”

    Through his grief, the American man had praise for the medical team who treated him in The Bahamas.

    “All of the Bahamian people have been great,” he said.

    “The facilities, unfortunately, I think lack funding and need help and, I don’t know, maybe I’ll try to figure out some way to help. I don’t know, I might be able to do something positive.”

    Speaking of PMH, he added, “They do the best with what they’ve got. They’ve just got so little, it seems. It’s actually amazing they can do what they do.”

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    Wondering - did power boat stop? Was it a yacht tender or a tour boat? I feel like a lot of details are missing from the news. Such a sad situation.
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    The article doesn’t mention what it was but this has been discussed on a number of Bahamas groups. It was a local boat, not a tour boat, around 35’. Operator is said to be devastated.

    frankly it was only a matter of time till this happened. Way to many CCs going way too fast in close quarters around Staniel
  4. Capt Ralph

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    I read the Nassau paper when bored. The news and corruption gets hilarious sometimes.
    This story was found there.

    Like many other stories in that rag, usually way short on details.
    When stories come up like this, many times more details come from our members.
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    Luv it when it comes together.
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    Such a sad and heartbreaking story. I wish a speedy recovery and he can move on from this tragedy, and the loss of his wife.
  7. Pascal

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    Here are some details from the man who was injured.

    found on FB:

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    A week ago my wife and I were in our dinghy, scouting out alternate anchorages and Thunderball Grotto. A fast moving Speedboat appeared from around an island ahead of us. Initially I could see the skipper and a few guests on the bow and they didn't appear that they would pass too close to us. Then it turned. I turned away to get out of it's path, then it turned toward us again, so I turned back the other direction to again try to avoid. Then they turned straight towards us yet again, I turned away and opened the throttle wide to try to get out of the way, but it was too late.

    I remember the impact as this huge hull hit the side of our dinghy, then being in the water struggling to find the surface, and being pulled aboard a boat next to my wife. I remember trying to see how she was, and screaming for someone to help her as I couldn't seem to move. I vaguely recall being carried into the clinic. So much is a blur. I was told my wife, the single most beautiful human being I've ever met, was gone. To say I'm devastated is a complete understatement. I eventually paid to have myself air lifted to Nassau after attempts to be sent to the US failed. They found my pelvis was fractured in several locations, my chest and lungs were bruised and battered, my nose was broken, and I had many other cuts and abrasions. They said my collarbone wasn't broken, but I know it is now shaped different than it was. With the help of many angels in the boating and Bahamas community, I eventually made my way to Ft Lauderdale where I am being re-evaluated before making my way back to Colorado. I will likely write more about this later...but it is too painful now."
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    Pascal, thank you for posting. I can’t even fathom the feeling he is going through. My prayers to him, family and friends.
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    Of all the reports I read, nothing about the boat and driver that hit him. Me thinks it was a local, if it was a yacht tender, it would be all over the news.

    I was told it was local boat with a bunch of people onboard, and just could not see them.

    Sad.
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    One of the Captain's WhatsApp groups stated that it was a large tender belonging to one of the houses and being run by a professional local captain, taking vacation-home owners out for the day. There was a stiff west wind (you've seen that) and he had the bow higher than normal to try to break the waves for the 10-12 passengers. He simply didn't see the dinghy. Within seconds of the accident, the lady was taken aboard the tender and rushed to Staniel, where they were met by a doctor and a surgeon, who both have houses on Staniel. Her injuries were too extensive for them to be helpful. A terrible tragedy.
  11. Capt Ralph

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    That seems like a harsh statement, and I wouldn't want you on my jury. I'm certain there will be an investigation and appropriate response.
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  13. Capt Ralph

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    Faverate quote from a movie but it does reflect my attitude.
    Just like if you kill somebody on the road with a car because of poor visibility, it is a homicide.
    There are lots of options vs continuing operating blindly at speed.

    If you ran people over with your car or boat, no you would not want me on your jury.
    You may have a different view if you were a victim though.

    As I have posted before, I have witnessed enough carnage on the roads and rivers.
    More causes of these need to still be in jail, Ben.
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